Getting Haircut from Don

rswfire is in his mobile living situation, receiving personal grooming assistance from Don. His ear piercings are noted as sensitive and recently done. He mentions his birthday is eight days away and references getting Mexican food earlier. The environment appears to be informal, likely within or near his RV setup.

Energetic Signature

tender vigilance

Field State

relational infrastructure building

Orientation

toward embodied trust

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April 4, 2025

8:57

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Author

rswfire

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ARCHIVED

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[0:00]Don cut my hair for me. I need to get it

[0:03]wet so I can style it better, but it's

[0:06]pretty good. It's a bit nervous letting

[0:09]him do it. Thank you, Don, for doing

[0:11]that,

[0:12]though. Oh, it feels so much

[0:15]nicer. Oh, it

[0:17]does. I think we'll call this a nomad

[0:21]haircut. So, John and I went and got

[0:23]Mexican. He got me Mexican for my

[0:26]birthday. No, that's eight days from

[0:28]now.

[0:33]and convince him to shave my hair. We're

[0:35]going to see if he'll do

[0:38]it. Hope he don't mess up. He can't

[0:41]really mess up with

[0:44]this. Give me a minute here. I'm going

[0:47]to show him how to do this. All you got

[0:48]to do is go like this and go up. Okay.

[0:56]It's going to cut it really easy. Like

[0:59]you make a mess in your

[1:01]yard. Um, and that's it. I'll show you

[1:04]like just um you want to just go up. It

[1:07]doesn't have to be perfect cuz my hair's

[1:09]going to go over it. Doesn't got to be

[1:10]perfect. Just in the back and stuff. Let

[1:13]me get my coat

[1:14]off. Um, and just be really careful my

[1:17]ear because my ear is super super super

[1:20]sensitive.

[1:22]Yeah. Sorry. Try to do that. like try to

[1:24]get the ear parts. Um, be really careful

[1:27]with my ear. Do you know you're doing

[1:28]this side?

[1:31]Okay. Far up. Do you want Doesn't look

[1:33]like it's doing anything. Yeah. Well,

[1:35]cuz I did that part. You just want to go

[1:36]up to where

[1:38]basically you got it. So, it doesn't

[1:41]look like it's doing any

[1:46]cutting. Not doing a very good job

[1:49]cutting. It should be taking off more

[1:51]than that.

[1:54]Are you holding it like?

[1:58]Yeah, it's doing it. Should do it pretty

[2:02]well. Oh, you're scaring

[2:08]me. You're not putting against my skin.

[2:10]You got to be harder than

[2:12]that. Yeah, you got it. There you

[2:16]go. Don't worry. You can't do this

[2:18]wrong. just doesn't I mean it's barely

[2:21]taking anything off. Um maybe cuz I got

[2:25]to get the Here, hold this. I mean, I

[2:28]use the razor. Kind of using this like a

[2:30]mirror. I mean, I used the razor, but it

[2:32]take it would take that if you go the

[2:34]opposite direction.

[2:36]See, why would we take it off in one

[2:38]swipe? Wondering if it's not vibrating

[2:40]properly. The plate.

[2:43]Oh, that hurts cuz um it's got to be

[2:45]wet. It's easier when it's wet.

[2:49]All right. Whatever. I guess I'll do

[2:50]this myself. Like this. Oh, I got to do

[2:54]it in the mirror. I can barely see.

[2:57]So, the hard part is going around the

[3:01]ear. Like worried about

[3:04]that. But

[3:06]maybe I don't know. Maybe I got to get

[3:08]my brush out and cuz maybe it's just not

[3:10]getting the teeth are not good enough

[3:12]yet. Um cuz yeah, it shouldn't be that

[3:15]hard. Listen to it. There's a different

[3:18]It's not engaging properly. That sounds

[3:21]better. Hear it? Yeah. Completely

[3:24]different sound. You want to try it?

[3:32]I mean, you already got that spot, so

[3:34]you're not like, you

[3:36]know. So, Oh, it took more. Okay. You

[3:42]don't got to be worried. Like, just go

[3:43]out. You'll be fine. cuz my hair's going

[3:45]to my hair's going to go over that. I

[3:47]still don't quite understand where you

[3:49]want to stop at. Up here. Up here. Cuz

[3:52]um it's a lot of

[3:53]hair. Yeah.

[3:56]Yeah. There you go. Yeah. See, now it's

[3:59]perfect. Oh, okay.

[4:04]Cool.

[4:05]Scarying.

[4:09]Scaring. Scaring. There's tearing me.

[4:12]Okay. Just get behind the ear. Man, that

[4:14]hurts.

[4:15]Um, I'm going to protect my hand. Say

[4:17]you're the one that intentionally

[4:19]Okay. poached yourself with additional

[4:24]cuz that's the part I can't get myself.

[4:41]Cool. Yep.

[4:42]like up to the like

[4:49]here. It's okay. I can get all the

[4:54]edges. Don't need to be perfect. One day

[4:56]I go see a hair

[5:02]stylist. Let's get it out of my

[5:07]way. Oh, careful. Careful. You almost

[5:10]got my ear. about to vibrate. Oh my god.

[5:14]Too far.

[5:17]The whole point was that one.

[5:22]Do you need me to do anything? You got

[5:24]this. I can sit down if you need me to.

[5:26]Well, I think that's part of our

[5:27]problem. I can't. My arms aren't going.

[5:31]Okay, that looks better.

[5:35]Okay, but you got to sit still. You're

[5:37]going to make me cut you. Okay.

[5:44]Oh, let me grab that ear. Oh my god,

[5:45]you're scaring the crap out of me. Okay,

[5:48]touching it. Too close.

[5:51]I'm not touching.

[5:54]They are very sore eaters. You can't

[5:56]even imagine, man. I know. You went

[5:58]ahead and poked and prodded and you

[6:01]know, end up sleeping on them

[6:04]and Yeah.

[6:09]This is way better. Already feels

[6:11]better. Turn this way. Other way. Okay.

[6:16]You need to tilt your head away from me.

[6:19]Away from you. Okay. Got

[6:25]it. Pretty son. Something wrong

[6:30]today. You got this.

[6:40]Such a difference,

[6:42]man.

[6:44]Feels I'm the

[6:51][Music]

[6:58][Music]

[7:11][Music]

[7:14]I think my hair will look better

[7:19]now.

[7:22]Okay, all the gray hair gone.

[7:25]Yay. We got to get a boyfriend now.

[7:28]Okay. And then the last step is really

[7:30]easy.

[7:31]Just take this

[7:32]off and just go like this behind me like

[7:36]just go down like find the line like

[7:39]make a line go down my neck please.

[7:42]Thank

[7:45]you. Yay.

[8:12]hairs are not wanting to cut. Okay.

[8:20]Okay. Peach fuzz, right? Mhm. Actually,

[8:24]there's a little longer ones there.

[8:26]Okay. Cut

[8:28]it. Yep. Thank

[8:31]you.

[8:33]Yay. I'm going to have to comb my hair

[8:36]out or something. Wow. How did my hair

[8:38]get so curly? I like curly though. Curly

[8:42]on this side. That's

[8:45]new. Huh. Did I bring a hat with me?

[8:49]Yeah.

[8:50]Okay. That's cool. Thank you. Now I just

[8:54]got to make it Yeah. Thank you.

Summary

rswfire receives a haircut from Don, who uses clippers to trim the sides and back. The process involves some technical difficulties with the clippers not engaging properly at first, requiring adjustment. rswfire provides instruction on technique and expresses concern about protecting his sensitive pierced ears during the cutting. Don works carefully around the ear piercings while rswfire guides him on where to cut and how to hold the clippers. The session concludes with neck trimming and rswfire expressing satisfaction with the results, noting the removal of gray hair and improved appearance. The haircut is described as a "nomad haircut" and rswfire mentions it's in preparation for his upcoming birthday in eight days.

Signal Analysis

Substrate

This transmission maps the architecture of vulnerability within trusted relational space, where physical modification (haircut) becomes a vehicle for testing and calibrating interpersonal boundaries. The field is practicing sovereignty through selective vulnerability - allowing another to alter the physical form while maintaining protective awareness around sensitive areas (pierced ears).

Dominant Language

carefulearhurttrustyou got thisbetterboyfriend

Symbolic Elements

thresholdedgemirrorblade

Ontological States

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vulnerable
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sovereign
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embodied
•
relational

Subsystems

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somatic
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relational
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emotional

Transmission Details

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