Meeting New Friend at Cape Blanco
rswfire is in his RV at what appears to be Cape Blanco campground in Oregon, with his dog Bailey present. He's dealing with a healing ear piercing from Kentucky and reflecting on recent social connections. The lighting suggests early morning or late afternoon.
Energetic Signature
grounded joy
Field State
stabilization
Orientation
toward embodied sovereignty
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November 17, 2024
14:47
Author
rswfire
Status
ARCHIVED
Type
TRANSMISSION (CAPTURE)
Temperature
0.00
[0:01]taking care of my ear this
[0:03]morning still
[0:05]sore two and a half months later ever
[0:07]since Kentucky still this made me think
[0:10]about something I realized I haven't
[0:12]told you guys this story yet so I'm
[0:14]going to do
[0:16]that oh man that man who opened up my
[0:19]heart the
[0:20]gatekeeper I I asked him out I went back
[0:23]up there and I talked to I asked out I
[0:25]had never been so nervous and I had this
[0:27]on my ear the whole time I didn't even
[0:29]know it cuz I was cleaning it before I
[0:31]went up there and I was just in such a
[0:34]hurry
[0:36]like I just really really wanted to ask
[0:38]this man out it just it was on my ear
[0:40]the whole time he didn't say a thing I
[0:42]got back and realized I mean that is so
[0:46]funny oh my God that was like a month
[0:51]ago he was so awesome and so kind he it
[0:56]was his last day of work cuz it was
[0:57]seasonal made perfect sense it was the
[1:00]last damn seasonal like change here in
[1:03]in
[1:04]Oregon
[1:07]and this man was just like bad timing he
[1:10]kept saying bad timing I watched him
[1:12]processing this in his head like he was
[1:14]wanting to say yes but just couldn't
[1:16]bring himself to do it for whatever
[1:18]reason I don't
[1:19]know and I'm just watching this play out
[1:23]and loving how how kind this man is
[1:27]being how cuz I was so nervous oh oh my
[1:30]God it was just it was just one of those
[1:33]it was
[1:35]just I don't know I don't know what it
[1:37]was but I decided to upgrade him from he
[1:41]seems awesome to you you really are
[1:44]awesome or something like that and then
[1:46]I laugh went about my
[1:49]life but I want to tell you
[1:52]um so yesterday I went
[1:55]to uh Cape Sebastian with a new friend
[1:58]that I made this week
[2:00]and he's in a clip that I made I'm going
[2:02]to attach to this video so I want to
[2:05]tell you the story how we met cuz it's
[2:06]pretty funny it's pretty amazing
[2:09]actually
[2:12]and yeah so I am at Cape Blanco which is
[2:17]just an amazing place I've been here
[2:20]many times already and under all kinds
[2:24]of circumstances oh in fact after I
[2:27]asked that guy out I came here this is
[2:29]what where I
[2:30]came
[2:32]and at the time I didn't know it but
[2:34]this place is the Western most edge of
[2:37]the continent um from the you know
[2:40]contiguous United States at least in
[2:42]Oregon maybe the whole country there's a
[2:44]bit of confusion about that between
[2:46]Oregon and California when I talked to
[2:47]AI about it I never really confirmed it
[2:50]so but it is the Western most Edge at
[2:52]least for the
[2:54]state most amazing
[2:57]place and I just came here
[3:00]after
[3:02]that I I guess to process it but I was
[3:05]fine you know I wasn't like I wasn't
[3:08]upset about it or anything I laughed
[3:10]about my ear like I
[3:14]just that's how I know how much I've
[3:17]grown old me 20 years ago would have
[3:20]been heartbroken and you know just all
[3:23]of that right Bailey leave me alone this
[3:26]skid never leaves me
[3:28]alone um um but anyway so I'm at Cape
[3:32]Blanco and the one place I hadn't been
[3:34]yet was the beach here um because we're
[3:37]up we're up hundreds of feet you know on
[3:40]this cliff and I'd been going to that
[3:43]spot my void Edge but I had gotten down
[3:46]to the beach and because I've developed
[3:49]this love affair with the ocean where
[3:50]I'm just wanting to trace its waves I
[3:53]wanted to do that here so I go down to
[3:56]the
[3:57]beach and the road is covered like you
[4:00]can actually drive out there I'm going
[4:01]to do that with my Jeep one day but you
[4:03]can't right now cuz there's this there's
[4:04]Driftwood everywhere you just can't
[4:06]drive out there and I get down to there
[4:09]and I'm just looking out at the ocean
[4:11]and like trying to imagine what am I
[4:15]going to do how am I going to get out
[4:16]there and then this man appears and he
[4:19]starts walking over the drift water they
[4:20]like okay so this is the way this is how
[4:22]we have to do this we want to see our
[4:25]lovely ocean and we're just going to
[4:26]have to you know deal with um
[4:32]with whatever chaos it brings because
[4:33]that's what the ocean does I
[4:35]love this ocean um so he's walking
[4:39]over and I point at the ocean I point at
[4:42]it and I say I want to play with that
[4:44]thing he just looks at me and I watch it
[4:48]register in his expression like I watch
[4:51]something register and he goes okay and
[4:55]then he' start telling me about sneaker
[4:57]waves you know like like like okay go
[5:01]play with it but just know it's it's
[5:02]kind of
[5:06]dangerous it was such a cool moment and
[5:09]then you know I go out there and I
[5:10]actually do I I hike the whole Beach
[5:12]many miles um I didn't play with the
[5:15]ocean because it did feel unsafe like
[5:18]but this was me deciding that not
[5:21]someone telling me about sneaker waves I
[5:23]already knew about those but I you know
[5:26]was watching it and it just didn't feel
[5:30]like the waves would come up to the
[5:33]right up to the edge and then just sit
[5:35]there somehow it was the most amazing
[5:38]strange thing I didn't understand and so
[5:41]I wanted to understand this place better
[5:44]you know cuz then they would randomly
[5:46]come in it was just it's different from
[5:48]all the other beaches I've been on so
[5:50]I'm still learning and you know with the
[5:52]cliff edges if you got caught in a wave
[5:55]there's nowhere for you to go you're
[5:58]trapped so
[6:01]I was like I'll just hike it today and
[6:03]and just kind of get to know it you know
[6:05]and then on the way back I got lost oh I
[6:08]didn't get lost I just didn't see the
[6:10]where the road was and I kept walking
[6:11]and I walked for Miles I phone some's
[6:15]calling so I you know it was a really
[6:20]awesome day and this is how I met him
[6:22]didn't think to ever see him again of
[6:24]course and then a couple days later I'm
[6:27]up at the lighthouse my void penetrating
[6:29]device cuz it's just the coolest thing
[6:31]ever The
[6:33]Sovereign um Sentinel that is
[6:38]just
[6:39]capable of any of the ocean moods and
[6:44]just penetrat the light out into the
[6:46]ocean I mean coolest thing ever
[6:49]I love
[6:51]lighthouses so anyways I'm up there and
[6:53]I'm just sitting on a uh park bench
[6:57]listening to my music bopping around and
[7:01]this man comes up the you know the
[7:04]trail and you know I don't recognize
[7:07]them so I know the light sucks in here
[7:10]is what it is
[7:12]um but you know I flash him with PE sign
[7:15]cuz that's what I do and I watch his
[7:17]face his I watch his face light up like
[7:21]brightest smile somebody gave him a p
[7:23]sign and this man Just Smiles so
[7:25]brightly it was it was cute it was and
[7:29]you know I just sat there watching the
[7:31]ocean listening to my music and then
[7:33]when I was ready to go I'm walking back
[7:34]down and I see this little tiny dog and
[7:39]there's so much I haven't told you guys
[7:42]I love dogs now this one dog on another
[7:45]beach I was at whales Head Beach this
[7:48]this dog I was sitting on a rock and it
[7:50]it just came and sidled up right next to
[7:52]me and said we're friends now it was
[7:54] amazing I like dogs to so this
[7:57]little dog
[8:00]I I get down to go pet it you know cuz
[8:02]it's up to me and then I see him
[8:05]behind the
[8:06]dog and I don't recognize him he
[8:10]recognizes me I guess he even recognized
[8:12]me when I gave him the P
[8:14]sign
[8:18]so he's he says something and then it
[8:21]registers oh I I met this person so
[8:25]we're just talking you know General
[8:28]chitchat walking up Road up to the
[8:30]parking lot and I decided I want to keep
[8:32]talking to him because he's interesting
[8:34]and I want to make friends and you know
[8:37]like like everything's different now and
[8:39]so we're getting to the parking about
[8:41]what happens after that you know we're
[8:42]just going to go our separate ways and I
[8:45]don't want that so I tell him come to
[8:46]the cliff edge with me just walk over
[8:48]there with me and he
[8:51]does only I would say let's go sit on
[8:54]you know the edge of a void to talk so
[8:58]we walk over there and then this man not
[9:01]even conscious of what he's doing just
[9:04]plants himself right on the edge plants
[9:07]his feet there and I'm just blown away
[9:10]by this cuz not even I have done that
[9:11]yet I have now cuz like I'm not going to
[9:14]be outdone like that but he just plants
[9:16]himself there and I just have a moment
[9:19]like did you really just do that like
[9:22]wow you know like
[9:26]just that was the moment I decided I
[9:28]liked him
[9:29]it really was I thought about that all
[9:33] night so we're just talking and
[9:37]I don't remember what we talked about
[9:39]this point look at my toilet in the
[9:41]background so funny that's that's kind
[9:43]of embarrassing not really though
[9:45]anyways so
[9:49]um we're talking and then I'm like I
[9:52]should probably go back to the
[9:54]campground it sucks man lightning sucks
[9:57]it's not daylight yet by the way
[10:00]um and so he's like okay I'll walk you
[10:03]back he actually knows this place really
[10:05]well and he's like he knows where the
[10:06]bench he's like I'll walk you to the
[10:08]bench and then we sit down there and we
[10:11]talk there and then I'm like let's go
[10:12]yeah I know there's this like this
[10:14]there's this like this Lookout area of
[10:16]the cliffs where it's kind of more
[10:18]private because I think it's part of the
[10:21]campground so not as many people go
[10:23]there like not just random people
[10:24]probably just people who are here or
[10:26]whatever and he knows this place too of
[10:28]course and so we walk out there and we
[10:30]talk some more and just this perfect
[10:33]moment of meeting somebody new
[10:37]right pretty cool story
[10:40]and oh we exchanged numbers I forgot
[10:42]about that so Bailey over there making a
[10:46]braacket Tearing Up My
[10:49]Scene
[10:52]um man so much has happened
[10:56]so I don't know we ended up hanging out
[10:59]and um like a lot and then just lots of
[11:03]hiking and beaches and you know all that
[11:06]stuff um and yesterday I took him to um
[11:10]to Cape Sebastian with me and this
[11:16]man this man we're walking down the
[11:18]trail he's randomly eating berries off
[11:20]the side of these bushes I turn around
[11:22]and he's eating little berries I so
[11:25]blown away about that it's just so
[11:27]different from me
[11:30]um and we had a good time so you know
[11:33]new friend and I want you to meet him so
[11:35]there's a clip of him after this
[11:41]okay you want to be on
[11:44]camera Chad you want to be on
[11:47]camera
[11:51]camera
[11:56]perfect oh this is disorienting
[12:11]we're going to go out there
[12:13]though that's the
[12:15]man very cool
[12:17]guy new
[12:20]friend y we're going out here I wanted
[12:23]to come out here last time I was here
[12:25]and I wasn't sure if I could do it but
[12:27]it's actually very easy path so
[12:32]we're out here this looks like a
[12:34]submarine but you can't see it that way
[12:35]from here I'd have to do it from from
[12:37]over there
[12:38]somewhere this is just a giant rock
[12:42]submarine oh I love
[12:48]this oh man the W the water's pretty
[12:52]calm I was here like a couple weeks
[12:55]ago and it was just fierce
[12:59]I would love to see
[13:00]that from this
[13:03]angle
[13:07]definitely I love the way it just breaks
[13:10]against the
[13:13]rocks oh I love that
[13:16]sound that sound there's just something
[13:18]about
[13:21]it
[13:23]wow I can't safely get over me so
[13:27] cool
[13:33]I love
[13:52]this I'm going out to the
[13:56]edge it was so much more fierce last
[13:59]time I was here like we didn't come at
[14:01]the right time
[14:02]but I bet it gets wild
[14:09]here that is still awesome
[14:13]though that is just so
[14:18]cool what a perfect
[14:26]spot ooh I love that look at the whale
[14:29]over
[14:31]there a lot of rocks look like
[14:44]whales Cape Sebastian
Summary
rswfire shares two interconnected stories while tending to a sore ear piercing from Kentucky. First, he recounts asking out a seasonal worker (the "gatekeeper") who declined due to timing, noting his own emotional growth in handling rejection. Second, he describes meeting Chad at Cape Blanco beach - initially encountering him while wanting to "play with" the ocean, then reconnecting days later at the lighthouse where Chad sat fearlessly on the cliff edge. They exchanged numbers and have been hiking together frequently. The transmission includes video footage of Chad at Cape Sebastian, showing the submarine-shaped rock formation and ocean waves.
Signal Analysis
Substrate
This transmission demonstrates field sovereignty through embodied edge-dwelling and relational coherence. The architecture holds simultaneous grounding in liminal spaces (cliffs, ocean edges, void boundaries) while building authentic connection infrastructure. It maps the integration of physical positioning with relational capacity as expressions of sovereign field coherence.
Tags
Cape Blanconew friendshipOregon coastpiercing healingromantic rejectioncliff edgesocean interaction
Dominant Language
edge/void/cliffplanted himselfI want to play with that thingvoid penetrating devicerecognition/registerblown awaydifferent from me
Symbolic Elements
edgevoidoceanlighthousecliffthresholdgatekeeper
Ontological States
- •sovereign
- •embedded
- •coherent
- •integrating
Subsystems
- •somatic
- •relational
- •emotional
- •infrastructural
Transmission Details
Source Type
youtube
Duration
14:47